When thinking of a man who would be ideal for me I Think about overall integrity. I would love to meet a man who has Strength, Intelligence and wisdom as well as a Good sense of humor,and creativity. When I say strength I don't mean Muscle either I'm talking Real Strength! Like being able to maintain his composure while being taunted by a foe or working himself to exhaustion to complete a task. Strength in stability and ability to keep himself and his loved ones Happy,healthy and safe. Intelligence Meaning able to hold a conversation about almost any subject without being a know it all. The ability to comprehend true meanings in the conversations we have and have a genuine interest in who I am not what I am! Wisdom from real life experience not a book meaning someone who has a history making decisions and how to decide what is right and wrong and what is just and compassionate. I want a man that knows how to learn from his mistakes not hide from them and give up. And last but not least a great sense of humor and creativity. I love to laugh and be entertained. Even sarcasm has its benefits and can bring me to tears laughing. I enjoy kind individuals with something real to say not jerks who intentionally try to get under my skin because they have no better way of expressing themselves. Creativity meaning anything constructive from writing to building or even gardening whatever it is that shows true compassion and dedication it what they love to do.
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